tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1649552098483696634.post280022821410098089..comments2023-10-24T16:01:15.762+01:00Comments on Transatlantic Blonde: Don't call me SweetheartMelaina25http://www.blogger.com/profile/10038762649811825748noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1649552098483696634.post-43322281520737797242010-08-21T12:10:32.362+01:002010-08-21T12:10:32.362+01:00Well said, Moms! My husband tends to use nicknames...Well said, Moms! My husband tends to use nicknames like these with women who work for him. He gets it from his dad, but I've tried to tell him it is annoying. *sigh*<br /><br />On another note, I agree about being careful with our words around kids. I hear myself say things sometimes, and I think "Was that necessary?" Blech.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing with us!Jewelshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05073864982668279897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1649552098483696634.post-1079971544066144082010-08-21T01:15:55.265+01:002010-08-21T01:15:55.265+01:00As feeble as it sounds, I am perfectly prepared to...As feeble as it sounds, I am perfectly prepared to let an older generation (read my uncles, aunts because they do it too, great uncles and whatever - even my sister in laws parents!) call me sweetie, doll or even hen. I think of it as a respect thing on my part and a love thing on theirs. There's moments when I just deal.<br /><br />However, if ANYONE did that to me at work, or in a situation when I had some authority or control - like looking after my god-kids or Blondie Boy - I'd have an issue. Yes I get that some people do it with affection but seriously. I am a grown-up. And in some cases I'm better than you. Not often, but I am somebody's superior, client and advisor. I work in an industry that's 85% male dominated just for the record. Therefore, I want the respect you would show anyone else (read a male).<br /><br />Long-winded and slightly apologetic but it's what I think.<br /><br />P.S. You win Mum. We know how much you love us (Rye included) and you couldn't have done a better job man, woman or hen.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02409287782427964450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1649552098483696634.post-29547275835313062292010-08-21T00:07:07.399+01:002010-08-21T00:07:07.399+01:00I get a lot of "honey" and "babe&qu...I get a lot of "honey" and "babe" at work....a couple of times I have told the old men that I didn't know them well enough for such a term of endearment.A girl has no namehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12720276320894116194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1649552098483696634.post-18019654909394068192010-08-20T17:09:20.811+01:002010-08-20T17:09:20.811+01:00Hah! I just KNEW she would mention 'hen'. ...Hah! I just KNEW she would mention 'hen'. I hate being called 'the American Swallowing Wifey'. I want, as you do, to hear more words being used to build rather than pull down, destroy, denigrate...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1649552098483696634.post-3375555564709338292010-08-20T14:33:13.701+01:002010-08-20T14:33:13.701+01:00I *so* completely agree. It really annoys me when...I *so* completely agree. It really annoys me when people call me "hen."<br /><br />I know it can be a term of endearment, but it can be so condescending especially when the person doesn't know you.<br /><br />It especially annoys me when a man uses such a term in a professional setting. Do you ever hear a man call another man "doll" or "sweetheart" in a business meeting?Melaina25https://www.blogger.com/profile/10038762649811825748noreply@blogger.com